Four Phrases You Can Use to Shut Down Unsolicited Advice

We’ve all been there:  You’re wrestling with a tough decision, when someone swoops in with “helpful” advice you never asked for.  Here are four ways to respond the next time you get some unsolicited advice . . .

1.  “Thanks for sharing.  I’ll consider it.”  It politely acknowledges their input without locking yourself in.

2.  “That’s a useful view.  I prefer to handle it this way.”  This shows you’re listening to their perspective while keeping the choice of how to act in your hands.

3.  “I appreciate your input.  I already have a plan for how I’ll move forward.”  This respectfully signals that you’ve got things under control.

4.  “I hear you.  If I need more guidance, I’ll reach out.”  This validates their effort but also prevents further unsolicited input unless you seek it out.

 

(CNBC)